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Consent & Mutuality

Mutual consent means discussing and deciding together whether and how we want to engage in sexual activity. What does consensual sex look like and how can we make it a social norm?

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Safe Alternatives to Choking and Breath Play

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Sexual choking involves blocking the airways for sexual pleasure. But there is no safe way to engage in breath play. Heather Corinna and Giselle Woodley discuss the dangers of choking, guidelines for BDSM and kink, and suggested alternatives.

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TED Talk: What Can BDSM Teach Us About Affirmative Consent?

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This video outlines the trauma-informed model for consent that Candace Liger crafted through her work in BDSM.

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Can You Consent to Sex if You're Drunk?

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This article looks at defining consent when alcohol is involved.

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Differentiating "Bad Sex" from Coercive Sex and Sexual Assault

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Marianne Kirby discusses the differences between bad sex and sexual assault or rape.