How Does Dementia Affect Sex and Intimacy?

Sex and intimacy can change after a dementia diagnosis, yet still be enjoyable. This FAQ by the Alzheimer’s Society addresses how dementia can affect the sexual needs, desires, and behaviors of a person with dementia and of their partner(s).

For instance, our sex life may change to reflect the physical and emotional changes of our partner with dementia. This is especially the case with some types of dementia, such as frontotemporal dementia (FTD).

Changes in our relationships after dementia are normal; however, it may be helpful to talk to a trusted person about the changes we are experiencing. We can consider other ways of releasing tension, such as masturbation and exercise. Even without sexual intercourse, there can be sexual intimacy and intimate touch. For physical contact, massage therapy and other forms of therapy can also be helpful.

When a person is living with dementia, their sexual behaviour, needs and desires may change. As their partner, yours may too. Your sex life may have changed, and you might need advice on how to cope with this, as well as how to feel better. Talking about sex and intimacy can help.

SOURCE: Alzheimer's Society