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title: "Isabel Allende on Aging, Motherhood, and More"
date: 2024-09-12T13:53:00-04:00
author: Jonese Austin
canonical_url: "https://ourbodiesourselves.org/stories-conversations/isabel-allende-on-aging-motherhood-and-more"
section: "Stories & Conversations"
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[Stories & Conversations](/stories-conversations)# Isabel Allende on Aging, Motherhood, and More

By Julia Louis Dreyfus (host), Isabel Allende (interviewee)

In this episode of the "Wiser Than Me" podcast, actress and comedian Julia Louis-Dreyfus speaks with Chilean-American novelist, feminist, and philanthropist Isabel Allende. Allende talks about living a good and healthy life with purpose at the age of 80.

She reflects on the freedom that comes with aging, and the importance of preparing for one's later years. She addresses how she came to understand herself as a feminist as well as motherhood, her relationships with her parents and her children and grandchildren, her current sex life, death and dying, and her approach to writing fiction.

> I belong to the transition generation. We were the bridge between my mother’s values and the way she was brought up and the new wave of young feminists that were changing the world. But we were in between because we were raised like our mothers, but we had to act like our daughters.

Note: The interview begins 6 minutes into the podcast.

![](/assets/img/monogram.webp)Topics

- [ growing older](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/subject-area/growing-older)
- [ sexuality & aging](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/themes/sexuality-aging)
- [ confronting ageism](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/themes/confronting-ageism)
- [aging](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/tags/aging)
- [families](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/tags/families)
- [Latine](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/tags/latine)
- [relationships](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/tags/relationships)
- [feminism](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/tags/feminism)
- [death and dying](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/tags/death-and-dying)
- [stories & conversations](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/tags/stories-conversations)
- [BIPOC (black, indigenous, and people of color)](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/tags/bipoc-black-indigenous-and-people-of-color)

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JZ discusses when she first began thinking about and preparing for aging and the health challenges she has faced as she has aged.](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/stories-conversations/my-story-looking-ahead-as-i-grow-older)

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This factsheet provides tips for maintaining heart health, with a particular focus on LGBT older adults.](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/health-info/10-things-lgbt-heart-disease)

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CB shares her story of experiencing difficult menstrual cycles as a teenager.](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/stories-conversations/your-story-menstruation-cb)

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CB discusses the process of finding a treatment for her painful periods and heavy bleeding, until discovering that they were caused by fibroids and cysts.](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/stories-conversations/living-with-irregular-menstrual-cycles)

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## 2020 Report: Caregiving in the United States

A report on the demographics of caregivers in the United States, the nature of care work, caregiver stress/health, the financial impact of caregiving, and more.

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A report on the demographics of caregivers in the United States, the nature of care work, caregiver stress/health, the financial impact of caregiving, and more.](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/health-info/2020-report-caregiving-in-the-united-states)

[Stories & ConversationsWatch

## Dealing with the Stigmatization of Sexuality

SA shares how gaps in her sex education curriculum growing up failed to prepare her for sex. She discusses her desire for sex-positive sex education.

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SA shares how gaps in her sex education curriculum growing up failed to prepare her for sex. She discusses her desire for sex-positive sex education.](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/stories-conversations/my-story-dealing-with-the-stigmatization-of-sexuality)

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## Treating Triple-Negative Breast Cancer and Early Stage HER2+ Breast Cancer in Older Adults

People 65 and over who are dealing with a breast cancer diagnosis have concerns about treatment that are often unique to an older population. Zoë Christopher shares insights from the 2024 meeting of the San Antonio Breast Cancer Symposium.

People 65 and over who are dealing with a breast cancer diagnosis have concerns about treatment that are often unique to an older population. Zoë Christopher shares insights from the 2024 meeting of the San Antonio Breast Cancer Symposium.](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/health-info/treating-triple-negative-breast-cancer-and-early-stage-her2-breast-cancer-in-older-adults)