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title: A Reflection on Disability and Sexual Assault
date: 2025-07-17T12:20:00-04:00
author: Jonese Austin
canonical_url: "https://ourbodiesourselves.org/stories-conversations/a-reflection-on-disability-and-sexual-assault"
section: "Stories & Conversations"
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[Stories & Conversations](/stories-conversations)# A Reflection on Disability and Sexual Assault

Carrie shares her experience of sexual assault, from the perspective of someone who has grown up deaf and uses hearing technology. Carrie highlights how people with disabilities often feel unwanted and undesirable concerning romantic relationships. This can leave them more vulnerable to sexual assault and undesired sexual experiences.

Carrie understands this firsthand as she was sexually assaulted by her first boyfriend. He ignored what she told him would make her feel safest as a deaf person in a sexual encounter. Although reporting the assault did not lead to justice, Carrie knows the value in speaking up. Her story affirms the importance of telling our stories as survivors.

> When I was 17, I had my first serious boyfriend. We moved very fast sexually—I was thrilled to feel desired. I felt undeserving of his interest in me, and he quickly caught onto this. Soon enough, he began using my disability as a weapon against me.

[Read the full article ](https://safepass.org/2023/07/26/disability-and-assault/)

SOURCE: Safe Passage •

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## Dealing with Difficult Menstrual Cycles

CB shares her story of experiencing difficult menstrual cycles as a teenager.

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CB shares her story of experiencing difficult menstrual cycles as a teenager.](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/stories-conversations/your-story-menstruation-cb)

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## It Was Like Somebody Turned on a Faucet

CB discusses the process of finding a treatment for her painful periods and heavy bleeding, until discovering that they were caused by fibroids and cysts.

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CB discusses the process of finding a treatment for her painful periods and heavy bleeding, until discovering that they were caused by fibroids and cysts.](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/stories-conversations/living-with-irregular-menstrual-cycles)

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## Dealing with the Stigmatization of Sexuality

SA shares how gaps in her sex education curriculum growing up failed to prepare her for sex. She discusses her desire for sex-positive sex education.

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SA shares how gaps in her sex education curriculum growing up failed to prepare her for sex. She discusses her desire for sex-positive sex education.](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/stories-conversations/my-story-dealing-with-the-stigmatization-of-sexuality)