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title: What LGBTQIA+ Sex Ed Should Look Like
date: 2020-06-16T03:00:00-04:00
author: OBOS Admin
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[Health &amp; Sexuality Info](/health-info)# What LGBTQIA+ Sex Ed Should Look Like

Combining interviews with experts and stories from regular people, this piece discusses the importance of sex education that is truly LGBTQIA+, not merely inclusive. It addresses information on barrier methods, a range of sexualities and gender identities, the fluidity of sex and gender, the vast diversity of ways people can be sexual, and more.

> Any education that says 'this is how things always are and always will be' teaches shame, Alves said. Sexuality and gender identity are fluid, so rather than be prescriptive in what we teach young people, we should teach that it’s okay and expected to explore who you are a little bit. It’s also normal for those things to shift, which doesn’t invalidate any part of your past, present, or future identity.

[Read the full article ](https://rewirenewsgroup.com/2020/06/16/what-lgbtq-positive-sex-ed-should-look-like/)

SOURCE: Rewire News Group • AUTHOR: Cassandra Corrado • LAST UPDATED: June 16, 2020

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- [LGBTQIA+ (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, intersex, and asexual)](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/tags/lgbtqia-lesbian-gay-bisexual-transgender-queer-intersex-and-asexual)
- [sex education](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/tags/sex-education)
- [sex positivity](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/tags/sex-positivity)
- [sexual identities](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/tags/sexual-identities)
- [youth](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/tags/youth)
- [gender identity](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/tags/gender-identity)

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An in-depth, current, and inclusive walk-through of current safer sex practices, including PrEP information, for people of all ages.](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/health-info/lgbtqia-safer-sex-guide)

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This article talks frankly about how people with pussies can protect themselves before, during, and after sex with each other.](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/health-info/safer-sex-between-people-with-pussies)

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A video by Dr. Lindsey Doe, encouraging us to think about our own sexual accelerators and sexual brakes.](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/health-info/sexplanations-with-lindsey-doe)

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## Sex Ed in School

SA describes her experience learning about sex and relationships while growing up and in college.

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SA describes her experience learning about sex and relationships while growing up and in college.](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/stories-conversations/my-story-learning-about-sex-ed-in-school)

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## Dealing with the Stigmatization of Sexuality

SA shares how gaps in her sex education curriculum growing up failed to prepare her for sex. She discusses her desire for sex-positive sex education.

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SA shares how gaps in her sex education curriculum growing up failed to prepare her for sex. She discusses her desire for sex-positive sex education.](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/stories-conversations/my-story-dealing-with-the-stigmatization-of-sexuality)

[ResourcesRead

## Finding an LGBTQ+ Inclusive Long-Term Care Community

A guide for people seeking inclusive long-term care for LGBTQ+ elders.

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A guide for people seeking inclusive long-term care for LGBTQ+ elders.](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/health-info/a-guide-to-finding-an-lgbtqia-inclusive-long-term-care-community)

[Stories &amp; ConversationsWatch

## Understanding My Own Sexuality

MB describes how being asexual, a sexuality less prevalent in the media and discourse, has impacted her life and the relationships she has with others.

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MB describes how being asexual, a sexuality less prevalent in the media and discourse, has impacted her life and the relationships she has with others.](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/stories-conversations/my-story-understanding-my-own-sexuality)
