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title: "Unlearning Shame, Relearning Pleasure: Resources on Healing From Purity Culture"
date: 2021-06-14T03:00:00-04:00
author: OBOS Admin
canonical_url: "https://ourbodiesourselves.org/health-info/unlearning-shame-relearning-pleasure-resources-on-healing-from-purity-culture"
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[Health & Sexuality Info](/health-info)# Unlearning Shame, Relearning Pleasure: Resources on Healing From Purity Culture

A resource for anyone grappling with or recovering from purity culture and its impact on their sexuality. This article supports the reader in that process with practical advice, emotional support, and resources to learn more.

> The ideas of “purity” are so ubiquitous that at times they’re almost invisible, and reach out far beyond the realm of sex education. Purity culture is white supremacist and colonial, and even stretches its fingers into another huge source of shame and harm, diet culture.

[Read the full article ](https://www.autostraddle.com/purity-culture/)

SOURCE: Autostraddle • AUTHOR: Christina Tesoro • LAST UPDATED: June 14, 2021

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- [shame](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/tags/shame)
- [sex education](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/tags/sex-education)

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## A Sex Positive and Transformative Justice Approach to #MeToo

This article imagines what accountability for sexual abuse would look like in a sex-positive, anti-carceral world.

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This article imagines what accountability for sexual abuse would look like in a sex-positive, anti-carceral world.](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/health-info/a-sex-positive-and-transformative-justice-approach-to-metoo)

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## Learning About What Sex Ed in School Didn't Teach Me

AB discusses the gaps in what she learned about types of birth control and potential uses of birth control.

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AB discusses the gaps in what she learned about types of birth control and potential uses of birth control.](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/stories-conversations/my-story-learning-about-what-sex-ed-in-school-didnt-teach-me)

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## Ageism Ignores and Insults the Competence of Adults

This article by Margaret Morganroth Gullette addresses the harm caused by ageism and “age shaming,” especially as it relates to assumptions about competence.

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This article by Margaret Morganroth Gullette addresses the harm caused by ageism and “age shaming,” especially as it relates to assumptions about competence.](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/health-info/ageism-ignores-and-insults-the-competence-of-adults)

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## An Analysis: Manifestations and Perpetuation of Gender-Based Violence

The Human Rights Advocacy and Research Foundation analyzes some of the reasons gender-based violence continues.

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The Human Rights Advocacy and Research Foundation analyzes some of the reasons gender-based violence continues.](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/health-info/an-analysis-manifestations-and-perpetuation-of-gender-based-violence)