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title: "Trans and Pregnant: How to Find Competent, Gender-Affirming Healthcare"
date: 2019-07-11T03:00:00-04:00
author: OBOS Admin
canonical_url: "https://ourbodiesourselves.org/health-info/trans-and-pregnant-how-to-find-competent-gender-affirming-healthcare"
section: Resources
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[Health & Sexuality Info](/health-info)# Trans and Pregnant: How to Find Competent, Gender-Affirming Healthcare

A guide for trans and nonbinary people to find perinatal and birthing care that is gender-affirming. Topics include where to find potential providers, questions to ask, and more.

> Trans people need and deserve quality, compassionate healthcare. While this is true all of the time, it becomes especially important during pregnancy. Trans men and nonbinary or genderqueer people who become pregnant have just as much right to competent healthcare as anyone else, but they often encounter many challenges and barriers.

[Read the full article ](https://www.healthline.com/health/mental-health/trans-pregnancy-provider)

SOURCE: Healthline • AUTHOR: D. Minverva • LAST UPDATED: July 11, 2019

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![](/assets/img/monogram.webp)Topics

- [ pregnancy & birth](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/subject-area/pregnancy-birth)
- [ diverse experiences of pregnancy & labor](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/themes/diverse-experiences-of-pregnancy-labor)
- [childbirth choices](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/tags/childbirth-choices)
- [pregnancy](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/tags/pregnancy)
- [trans](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/tags/trans)
- [non-binary](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/tags/non-binary)
- [genderqueer](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/tags/genderqueer)
- [gender affirming care](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/tags/gender-affirming-care)
- [birth](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/tags/birth)
- [trans healthcare](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/tags/trans-healthcare)

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## Overcoming Challenges During Pregnancy

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## Deciding Where to Give Birth

MB explains how she decided to give birth in a hospital.

![My Story- Deciding Where to Give Birth](data:image/png;base64,iVBORw0KGgoAAAANSUhEUgAAACAAAAAgCAIAAAD8GO2jAAAACXBIWXMAAA7EAAAOxAGVKw4bAAAFU0lEQVRIiV1W0Y7kNg4sUrK7d5EAQYI83P9/2wFJbveA29nptkSyKg+ye/ZiCEarYVSxipRISwmAAIIFVmVFZmTMyMjMyMzKShZFggJkghkcZgY3M3OYvZYAwWQATHD833OSSTq3Wq/1n67fr/f6+p8IP2766xtd0K+HFEmSokRJIigBBjgkGIAzUNhCXOFfURnQr1AhSDiBSZJFFklWVVWxKAo6/QEMDgdkLyUADHYJPmW+CE50Xk9VVVZmZmZV1hICwQE3g8EAGQQzhwCz09of1z8IPiKvyoUekRFVWSxKMMHN3Ky5Q4CbmSj4cufDihdHf5lD6Af0zIiIGXNmRGaSdZrazJs7HNbcIDNzgA6jYCcBz5pYBBe6fkDPiIiYM8aIiMooFiC4eXP1JrSVYBkEwAH4yoV4IUoQ+rU9c7oIFvocY44RY1QmWTCZm2+tqXf0q+xNMMBgBEwyURJILR2d4Ic/r/BnzDnmMcbzGWNUBkmYvHlnl8qgdbrcTWYAZP4iIEGuUr8UFKuuwonIOeccYxzHeD7ncVSEVDC0rZF9024Gc5gZ3WDmAAyCSVjoa4lYClZd8iqcGXOOYxzP53g85vPImGBZQ9+6uBvkDnfz5kw3MwpwCSZaUaSKYklSL5Wk4ln2ERkRc57hPx+P+XjUHCK92XbrUprJm3nz1pzuto6FJBhlLBVVdYroVSWpqvKs/YgZc8w5juP5PN4f4/17jQFm687cgXJH6966V2/WHGYuwJtgRRRRpXX0RfViiaqV34qPAjrG8Xwe7+/H2/c6nmD1zVk3M7bubWutN+/dWlv4kCQvYYWfxapFkCWpMqsyIyMX/pzHMR6P4/v78faWjweU296kT97Q99a3nvvWontzMzOsHHgRRWWpknlZlKJWeq8jEDHHPI6xFHx7y/fvYNS9A9k267feb1ufW9u69wZ3PwmsiCQqmZdLvTJPBZmZkREZ8zxlz2Msgrf/gZOfN2/st7bd97jv/ba3ffPeYC4BLsIoq1KWMrnyvAj4Qq+InJFzxpxxHPPxnG9v8fW/4FNx9w3907aPe8z7NkfOk8ABOAUvWpZW+HkRBMmMrMjKyLUics4cI57P+e17/PUF8z+oX/unFj/f4/ic41PErcVu0WXeAHhfBEVVnhws9YxYCiqjFk1EXVLqGPn2Hn/8G4Btf8Qvn+P4OeYz5tHnvc3de4c5AbsUVK0yVSVPBSJP3IzKYCYzGcnMmlHvowAA+SfiX19i/BrziBh9jh67R5d7E+AEnLIqZKHOHKBXTFGnghd6JitVpaKOJCDAgTq+ZTwjRsTYYkTcbG4yp2QngZ8KUrwIgtJS8CP0urHOPnXONahAxZExFofPYb3LjYI5YU10EkywxAKpXhFaBBnMYOa6R0CZYDDbNrs4SsgamTNzRswWw6PLjII7gQY5y1gngYQzB8xa4esKH5LBvDW/7waza3QgsyoyZ+RsOS36OgfeCHTIVSYaCyqI6swgVZkr/DM1kgFmZq35fW/4XfgLgBoIFjMXRwxbVSS0khmhBprKVKuLnQrEdTmxVr9Y1rubt+a33X//yb58xS+lBgKlqoqsaBWe09wFk8MhqEAHXQXQRHRmSVKd5pzOnQrcW2v77j99cv3G21d0F5xa7S8ywzPMG3DCmxrkKAcNZRC6Kte8pdWKqA9/3L01691vu9Vn64lWqyhrNUBGVXg1g8NNZi4ZGyjQ1upa7Zml1a11+vPB0Ztt3fddfoeHzARJdc2WxSpaGcrOwwYQ9kGwmj+veUzXjAZbBOZuraF3WIdx3cuCVkBcYz3poIwm1zlZ+Jrj/wY3AyR04EnVCQAAAABJRU5ErkJggg==)

MB explains how she decided to give birth in a hospital.](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/stories-conversations/my-story-deciding-where-to-give-birth)

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## Cultivating Confidence During Pregnancy

MB shares how she prepared herself for pregnancy and birth and how childbirth classes and books shaped her perception of childbirth.

![My Story- Cultivating Confidence During Pregnancy](data:image/png;base64,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)

MB shares how she prepared herself for pregnancy and birth and how childbirth classes and books shaped her perception of childbirth.](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/stories-conversations/my-story-cultivating-confidence-during-pregnancy)

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## Mortality

lana Goldhaber-Gordon reflects on her profoundly different emotional experiences of pregnancy and miscarriage in the U.S. and in Israel ten years later.

![miscarriage](data:image/png;base64,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)

lana Goldhaber-Gordon reflects on her profoundly different emotional experiences of pregnancy and miscarriage in the U.S. and in Israel ten years later.](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/stories-conversations/my-story-mortality)

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## Understanding Changes in My Sexuality

MB shares how her sexuality has changed over the years, explaining how she felt during each transition.

![My Story- Understanding Changes in My Sexuality](data:image/png;base64,iVBORw0KGgoAAAANSUhEUgAAACAAAAAgCAIAAAD8GO2jAAAACXBIWXMAAA7EAAAOxAGVKw4bAAAEJklEQVRIiV2W0bLzuA2D8YE62z5pZ3rbN+9Fp7v9I6AXkpPsejiM7NiESJEE+ec//gUCDazRj1nD0WOW8RHuJSxbGFseZjHjWZ7xWp7xjD3YNgJLbatKqs6vrv5cf7nv9335vNE/P5SkJVXio3tfa6Veff8/F5VAlYTEn819Y0ggrbZQCbUtx2hzHuh5SAVCWA1IAkXy2wNULuTFO5tYUlpVVFLpW0KhlUIFpkIVsloaFRTkqzkYj/DxINIFaGnVUBFh0VJTUQFIkm8YER/r36afoJ31aveJa6WE3DV/EenYqQ6gREGxjOq/bl+0J5KPB1WQTaOI9IhSKNy4GT3ox4MGXfFdmBPoJxdW8gJFICUKpMR6A/h9KnJlZDEYdSPoiVJR/eXEPfZqpZvKUgCdbZA+OsQwUJAri7lvG5r7RYPy5NLHD6HV7JvS1QUQyXGbmFTUHipff6LnXE33cUJfe5fyrp21u3lqE2mfXEYgAhaGITIyTJGivqMi6wSkx25Uq+8S1Ur2LcinAfCFYZ/z8O5pV4ViUTduo7co126/OoG09gPQpx29UxhuW6NQR4XaamjcTpumbdq2pV/NQC2lWjv5ALTqp0ZQMWe/pzixtsFmQkLyYNzrbfw4UbF2qhPIz0uPm5QIo55mMBjsPWGHyS2WVqlSWW5zakcliK5XhJTWqvNYb265Uw0IbsgiRztMtavpOVfl5M5tIET4ZBQXgOLKx8e8c6AndpyAAa/iah/r0pamSps2t7RM32lyPLBUV1RTmr6NS+XNBLeQ291uaatbHXWrxtbsTx1zYytV69cD4CZ1q+ZmhIToLcN8Wdzq5uiYjCY0cmQwMsIiEhdAVl0m6Q3Rk7aXO27BfvRWNmsrJgcG5lrHggoLtP7XUQ9AplrRk0rnuKOoODyGTDZ7e22yPWY2ywrE8j7tUH6OYf2RQXJreXVfzunhnxwiSlg4ceIdH+t7e79YZl7EDMzRG+uw6wVYp9NOmxLtk3IPj6Y6rduT2dtjb/u1vV7chdkvrzcAGvh48HuvB0vZunXzkCgVqQZ2PfXEs+dlz8vLXi+W2fY22yyzIHCmAQtg/SdjadQf8dvDndWl7YihI6Z27c7Esz322l5Hv/gx+xyPNdHitBiB1r87ln5T/65LyN8jzmmV+4xzHcfGjmd7PU782HvzcwFYUGQ0ArR+dST9of7ikPkdpk6UomzVwjVHYscTr3jtaz3bHZqPzAkULNWnUH+/s1V92JVKeqIpydSqqR17s8yPvYcco5vOZURFRYMirft5K/Rf6Uddzxgi1bJVhA4hFwVg7AmvsEM32mLk4IinmTbYWrdYuVT2h/ibWGJzWD65M+AzWADFYeVyviuXKXNZW+47W1hfIUfil9kiV/TMuWfWU6Qe4uln8Srrdtgz6Si9rK/q/4eS5Z8WWqaIAAAAAElFTkSuQmCC)

MB shares how her sexuality has changed over the years, explaining how she felt during each transition.](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/stories-conversations/my-story-understanding-changes-in-my-sexuality)