---
title: "It's Time to Stop Asking How We Can Help Fat People Love Themselves"
date: 2020-11-24T03:00:00-05:00
author: OBOS Admin
canonical_url: "https://ourbodiesourselves.org/health-info/its-time-to-stop-asking-how-we-can-help-fat-people-love-themselves"
section: Resources
---
[Donate](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/donate)

[Health & Sexuality Info](/health-info)# It's Time to Stop Asking How We Can Help Fat People Love Themselves

Simply telling fat people to love themselves ignores the many personal, medical, and societal obstacles to self-love. This piece argues that it’s difficult, if not impossible, to love your way out of anti-fat oppression, and asks the reader how they are making the world more accepting of body diversity.

> Regardless of how fat people feel about our own bodies, we live in a world that expects fat people to be deeply ashamed of ourselves at every turn. That expectation is often reinforced even by our families, partners, friends, and loved ones. Some of us may want or need help in addressing our own body image, but all of us need a world in which it is possible for us to simply be in our bodies as they are.

[Read the full article ](https://www.self.com/story/fat-people-self-love)

SOURCE: SELF • AUTHOR: Your Fat Friend (Aubrey Gordon) • LAST UPDATED: November 24, 2020

![Two plus size women in a pool. One is wearing a black bikini and hugging the other who is wearing a red one piece swimsuit.](data:image/png;base64,iVBORw0KGgoAAAANSUhEUgAAACAAAAAUCAIAAABj86gYAAAACXBIWXMAAA7EAAAOxAGVKw4bAAADmklEQVQ4jWWUwY4kuQ1EI0hKWVXds16fBtgv8sVf4j83sIYv9nRXkhF7yOqxDSOJFHUQQ4+kyL/95a8AYBu2bUsaqzWnz6fODz//rR//9L9+9+/wE8b/mADjTd9/869/1tu7Hm+63b0PreUqRxQzLwHAsGEEYZqWMqlUFtf2ht/hf1wR/2MA/OsveNx8LOyFVaxUJSudiYiq2/0FAMOyBhorXeGmC0475fyu9Xff7R/QD3igBT3ufnzX25/8+Kb7u28P3+7eh/d2LWQ5ourtHQBhWLCggRrTmBNTONM7faaPpftD7x/uU6K4FQ+th443HW8+Hr7dfdy8b9iHa6EKF8H+9gtswrTgCQ2noZPzRNdl7vJ5aB6akTwOcU0eWjetu/bP0DfvjbV5CcQl8P6NMOyw6Inp0BlzchZ7oQtT7uU+NSNpzGFO7MmtumndtG/aB/YN+8DaWIu1mIlMkrXf3wnQCivUoc45Y57RxSl2XhCaliR5EMPqWFPH1E3r+BI4sA+ujVpRxUrEJfB4BxxfAjlnzpmTOckONtnhTqs1GmOQHTWxu45Zx38RHFiba3OtqGImM8iodb8DDjs8OZ2qmsxmNCMRCSRRoUlJMhtZrM4j65h1zL5p3/wi2Fw71mJVZDICEZW3gwat9ORkitXIcIYjHCGE0XbwKkAgOxZzRe1eO/fW3t6H98G9uf+PINd+pUiRyRwnnVRyAkMUPXAZIAgDCEfgosuaLGa5Cqu4FldxFWtFJSMYUay6ejREjomCB044oaACESBBgKBJMEAB8XrMJGnSDEYwkpHMYGZkgFGIAHx9dth0hIMicUW9Jolg2bIBOwAhBhIl2K9Jc80O4rqQSQbrxQ2YEMHrsuA1yMKGDNkz7pYshwgpjDQb0e52DWYw8peebdqwSzDw2hgvCtkhU6aEEbrR7fP0SApRCmsoh5GOdJazkI1KzNU/JAmgZMGmJb8OXnEpU8MRpnE2ztOfT/R4IJRz3LAov2ruSGfisiCCV2pLEn5OOosSNK//CD04B2fj84nPDzwbbSMR7WUPYJrxBZHIdAZIk7CRUaMBAAsSNNblCCPPYIbdOE88n/j45OcnTkGBOLEFXV1bV4pc6crrBSHoF4G/yiL9NPx0RphBN8+Tz098/OBnc4LROAEnuFDba3lvn+3V6nalO0zaLlsw/OpB+1qky4PkEUd8aTz5+WSTNFXMjXX4PNHtbnV7RpJGzrFo4A8CsTFZtQGFAgAAAABJRU5ErkJggg==) AllGo - An App for Plus Size People/Unsplash

![](/assets/img/monogram.webp)Topics

- [ mental health](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/subject-area/mental-health)
- [culture](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/tags/culture)
- [discrimination](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/tags/discrimination)
- [shame](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/tags/shame)

![](/assets/img/monogram.webp)### *Why You Can* **Trust Us** 

- We rigorously evaluate all content
- We embrace a reproductive justice framework
- We don’t accept ads or sell products
- We reject funding from the pharmaceutical industry
- We counter misinformation and disinformation
- We address the social, political, and economic factors that affect health and sexuality

[read more](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/why-you-can-trust-us)

Share

[](javascript:void();)[](javascript:void();)[](javascript:void();)[](javascript:void();)

##### More to Explore

[Where We StandRead

## Fat Politics and Health at Every Size

We hold to the intersectional feminist view that bodies of all shapes and sizes are valid and have beauty. Body-shaming is actively harmful.

![Two white women laughing in an office.](data:image/png;base64,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)

We hold to the intersectional feminist view that bodies of all shapes and sizes are valid and have beauty. Body-shaming is actively harmful.](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/where-we-stand/where-we-stand-fat-politics-and-health-at-every-size)

[Stories & ConversationsRead

## Being in a Relationship When You Don’t Like Your Body

"Almost every girl I knew complained about her body—about her stretch marks, the size of her hips, her breasts, her thighs. I always kept quiet. I was chubby and felt like if I complained, I wouldn’t get the reassurance that so many girls were looking for."

![201711youngwoman](data:image/png;base64,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)

"Almost every girl I knew complained about her body—about her stretch marks, the size of her hips, her breasts, her thighs. I always kept quiet. I was chubby and felt like if I complained, I wouldn’t get the reassurance that so many girls were looking for."](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/stories-conversations/conversations-being-in-a-relationship-when-you-dont-like-your-body)

[Stories & ConversationsWatch

## Experiencing Fatphobia after My Miscarriage

EH shares how their experience with fatphobia in medical systems has increased, with doctors focusing on their weight more than their health concerns.

![Elise](data:image/png;base64,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)

EH shares how their experience with fatphobia in medical systems has increased, with doctors focusing on their weight more than their health concerns.](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/stories-conversations/my-story-experiencing-fatphobia-after-my-miscarriage)

[ResourcesRead

## Finding an LGBTQ+ Inclusive Long-Term Care Community

A guide for people seeking inclusive long-term care for LGBTQ+ elders.

![Georg arthur pflueger elder care unsplash scaled jpg](data:image/png;base64,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)

A guide for people seeking inclusive long-term care for LGBTQ+ elders.](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/health-info/a-guide-to-finding-an-lgbtqia-inclusive-long-term-care-community)

[ResourcesRead

## A Menstrual Expert's Surprising Tips On How To Talk About Your Period

An interview with Dr. Inga Winkler about menstrual stigma – what it is, how it is perpetuated, and ways to combat it.

![A Menstrual Expert's Surprising Tips On How To Talk About Your Period](data:image/png;base64,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)

An interview with Dr. Inga Winkler about menstrual stigma – what it is, how it is perpetuated, and ways to combat it.](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/health-info/a-menstrual-experts-surprising-tips-on-how-to-talk-about-your-period)

[ResourcesRead

## A Sex Positive and Transformative Justice Approach to #MeToo

This article imagines what accountability for sexual abuse would look like in a sex-positive, anti-carceral world.

![Mihai surdu me too unsplash scaled jpg](data:image/png;base64,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)

This article imagines what accountability for sexual abuse would look like in a sex-positive, anti-carceral world.](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/health-info/a-sex-positive-and-transformative-justice-approach-to-metoo)

[ResourcesRead

## A Trauma-Informed Response To Racial Injustice

How can adults help young people discuss injustice safely and meaningfully? This resource explores trauma-informed responses to racial injustice.

![Duncan shaffer lo Pr MM Xp IIA unsplash scaled jpg](data:image/png;base64,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)

How can adults help young people discuss injustice safely and meaningfully? This resource explores trauma-informed responses to racial injustice.](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/health-info/a-trauma-informed-response-to-racial-injustice)

[ResourcesRead

## Abortion Explained: Queer and Trans Justice

Stories of queer and trans folks who are involved in the fight for abortion rights, with a useful glossary of gender and sexuality terms.

![Abortion Explained- Queer and Trans Justice](data:image/png;base64,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)

Stories of queer and trans folks who are involved in the fight for abortion rights, with a useful glossary of gender and sexuality terms.](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/health-info/abortion-explained-queer-and-trans-justice)