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title: Emotional Planning for Retirement
date: 2023-01-20T03:00:00-05:00
author: OBOS Admin
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[Health & Sexuality Info](/health-info)# Emotional Planning for Retirement

Though most people spend many hours doing financial planning for retirement, how many people do emotional planning? Retirement is a huge transition, and it’s essential to think about how much money you’ll have and how you will create the kind of life you want. In this hour-long podcast episode with Dorian Mintzer and Louise Nayer, you will learn about how to navigate the emotional side of retirement, including:

- Making the Decision
- Fears of Isolation and Losing a Community
- Fears of Losing Your Identity
- Trusting Yourself
- Fears of Getting Sick
- Calming Exercises
- Maintaining a Healthy and Fulfilling Retirement

> Whether you are about to retire, newly retired, or have been retired for a long time, it’s never too late to talk openly about how you feel and the difficulties and joys of retirement.

[Listen to the episode ](https://revolutionizeyourretirementradio.buzzsprout.com/1881506/10858101-emotional-planning-for-retirement-with-dorian-mintzer-and-louise-nayer)

SOURCE: Revolutionize Your Retirement Radio • AUTHOR: Louise Nayer & Dorian Mintzer • LAST UPDATED: July 5, 2022

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![](/assets/img/monogram.webp)Topics

- [ growing older](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/subject-area/growing-older)
- [ managing retirement](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/themes/managing-retirement)
- [aging](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/tags/aging)
- [community](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/tags/community)
- [retirement](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/tags/retirement)
- [social isolation](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/tags/social-isolation)
- [anxiety](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/tags/anxiety)

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## Affordable Housing Initiative for LGBTQ+ Older Adults

This site includes a resource library for housing for LGBTQ+ older adults and access to various reports on LGBTQ+ aging.

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This site includes a resource library for housing for LGBTQ+ older adults and access to various reports on LGBTQ+ aging.](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/health-info/affordable-housing-initiative-for-lgbtq-elders)

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## Ageism and Heterosexism in African American LGBT Lives

This article tells the stories of LGBT African Americans, their very real problems around coming of age, and how those experiences shaped their lives as they grew older.

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This article tells the stories of LGBT African Americans, their very real problems around coming of age, and how those experiences shaped their lives as they grew older.](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/health-info/ageism-and-heterosexism-in-african-american-lgbtqi-lives)

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## Ageism Ignores and Insults the Competence of Adults

This article by Margaret Morganroth Gullette addresses the harm caused by ageism and “age shaming,” especially as it relates to assumptions about competence.

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This article by Margaret Morganroth Gullette addresses the harm caused by ageism and “age shaming,” especially as it relates to assumptions about competence.](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/health-info/ageism-ignores-and-insults-the-competence-of-adults)