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title: Changing the Way We Talk about Gender-Based Violence
date: 2019-08-29T03:00:00-04:00
author: OBOS Admin
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[Health & Sexuality Info](/health-info)# Changing the Way We Talk about Gender-Based Violence

C. Nadine Wathen, an academic researcher, explains the real-world impact of how researchers and the media choose to talk about gender-based violence and offers recommendations for the future.

> Gender-based violence is a ‘wicked social problem’ that’s defined as difficult or impossible to solve because of its prevalence, cost, harm and complicated solutions. The immediate causes of gender-based violence stem from individual actions, but it is as much, or more, about what we believe and tolerate as a society.

[Read the full article ](https://theconversation.com/true-or-false-men-and-women-face-violence-in-their-relationships-equally-121540)

SOURCE: The Conversation • AUTHOR: C. Nadine Wathen • LAST UPDATED: August 29, 2019

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- [ gender-based violence](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/subject-area/gender-based-violence)
- [ intimate partner violence](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/themes/intimate-partner-violence)
- [ ending gender-based violence](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/themes/ending-gender-based-violence)
- [intimate partner violence](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/tags/intimate-partner-violence)
- [sexual violence](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/tags/sexual-violence)
- [culture](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/tags/culture)

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## How Past Sexual Abuse or Violence Affects Relationships

How does experiencing violence or sexual abuse affect our intimate relationships? The conversation below is excerpted from an online discussion on relationships, identity, and sexuality.

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How does experiencing violence or sexual abuse affect our intimate relationships? The conversation below is excerpted from an online discussion on relationships, identity, and sexuality.](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/stories-conversations/conversations-how-past-sexual-abuse-or-violence-affects-relationships)

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## Recommendations for Healing from Abuse

In this conversation, excerpted from an online discussion on relationships, identity, and sexuality, participants discuss what has helped them cope with past sexual violence and abuse.

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In this conversation, excerpted from an online discussion on relationships, identity, and sexuality, participants discuss what has helped them cope with past sexual violence and abuse.](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/stories-conversations/conversations-recommendations-for-healing-from-abuse)

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## Menopause Movements and Menopause Capitalism

The authors of "Hot Flash" discuss how menopause capitalism tries to profit from the growth of menopause awareness, selling dubious products that do not take our health needs seriously.

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The authors of "Hot Flash" discuss how menopause capitalism tries to profit from the growth of menopause awareness, selling dubious products that do not take our health needs seriously.](https://ourbodiesourselves.org/health-info/menopause-movements-capitalism)